Monday morning walking down the streets of world wide web i come across psychologists who give me tips on how to manipulate people in social situations or socially awkward situations.
1. Whenever someone is angry and confrontational, stand next to them instead of in front of them. You won’t appear as so much of a threat, and they eventually calm down.If they dont run.
2. Open with “I need your help.” People don’t like the guilt of not
helping someone out. When asking for a favor from someone, begin your
request by saying “I need your help.” It greatly increases your chances of
getting that favor done.
3. Rephrase what the other person says and repeat it back to them. This makes them
think you’re listening and really interested in what they’re saying. It makes
them feel validated. Obviously, you don’t want to overdo this.It may end up awkward.
4. If you want someone to agree with you, nod while you talk.This gets the other person to nod too, and they begin to subconsciously think they agree with you.
5. If someone doesn’t like you, ask to borrow a pencil. It is a small
enough favor that they won’t say no, and it gets them to like you more.
6. Fold your arms to determine interest. If someone is
observing you, they will likely mimic you. Fold your arms, and see if they do
it, too.
7. Repeat a person’s name many times during a conversation. It helps you
remember it, and makes them like you more.
Hoping it helps you ..........
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